Free quiz · Just you · 2 minutes

What’s your love strength?

Eight everyday moments with friends, family, work, and home. Find out which of the Four Bases you lead with, what to watch for, and one small practice for this week.

How it works

Pick what you would actually do

  • 8 quick questions, a new mix every time, no right answers
  • Your strength, your growth edge, and a practice
  • No account. Your answers are never saved.

Have a partner with you? Try the couples game instead.

The Open HandDāna · Generosity
The Kind VoicePiyavācā · Pleasant Speech
The Steady HandsAtthacariyā · Active Partnership
The Fair WitnessSamānattatā · Radical Equity

About the quiz

Questions about the love strength quiz

Want to practice with someone? Try 40 questions to ask your partner or the couples game.

Is the love strength quiz free?

Yes. It is free, takes about two minutes, and needs no account or email.

Is this quiz only for couples?

No. The questions cover friends, family, work, and home, so it works whether you are single, dating, or married. For couples there is also a two-player game.

What are the four love strengths?

Each one matches a base from The Four Bases of Love: the Open Hand (Dāna, generosity), the Kind Voice (Piyavācā, pleasant speech), the Steady Hands (Atthacariyā, active partnership), and the Fair Witness (Samānattatā, radical equity).

Are my answers saved?

No. Your answers stay on your device and disappear when you leave the page. To keep retakes fresh, your browser remembers which questions it showed you last time, never your answers.