Free couples quiz · One phone · 6 minutes
How well do you read each other?
Eight everyday moments, scored on the Four Bases of Love. Answer for yourself, guess what your partner picked, then reveal together.
- AnswerEach of you answers 8 everyday questions, one at a time. A new set every game.
- GuessOn every question, guess what your partner picked.
- RevealCompare together and see which base you share most.
A note on safety. This game is for fun and reflection, not therapy or a clinical assessment. If you feel afraid of your partner or experience abuse, threats, coercion, or controlling behavior, seek qualified individual support or local emergency help.
About the game
Questions about the couples quiz
Want more to talk about afterward? Try 40 questions to ask your partner or date night games at home.
Is this couples quiz free?
Yes. The Four Bases Match is free, needs no account, and takes about six minutes for two people.
Do we need two phones?
No. You play on one phone and pass it between you. Each person answers privately, then you reveal the answers together.
How is the game scored?
Each question earns a point when you give the same answer and a point for each correct guess about the other person. Your score is shown overall and for each of the Four Bases.
What are the Four Bases of Love?
Generosity (Dāna), pleasant speech (Piyavācā), active partnership (Atthacariyā), and radical equity (Samānattatā). They come from early Buddhist teachings on relationships and are the framework of the book The Four Bases of Love by Dr. Mitra Ganewatta.
Are our names and answers saved?
No. Everything stays on the device you play on and disappears when you leave the page.