One 30-day couples course · never a subscription

Purchase once. Return while the program is offered.

Create and verify your private account first, complete one secure Stripe payment, and enter your Temple. Then invite your partner to create and verify a separate private sign-in—at no extra charge.

$39 onceTwo verified private accountsAccess for the life of the program
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Complete couples journey

One month of guided practice for two.

$39 one time

One payment · no renewal · return while the program is operated

  • The progress-aware Book-to-Practice Map
  • All 24 activities, stories, book diagrams, games, and read-aloud rituals
  • The complete 30-day Temple Builder
  • All four practice libraries on demand
  • Shared course completion with unlimited restarts
  • Two private sign-ins with consent-based diagnostic sharing
  • Continued access after Day 30 while the program is offered
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This confirmation also incorporates the Participant Agreement, Program & Safety Disclaimer, and the refund policy. After paid Temple content is opened, the purchase is final except where applicable law requires otherwise.

From book to behavior

See the architecture. Practice it for 30 days.

The book gives you a complete relationship map. The paid journey shows where you are inside it, connects every week to its underlying ideas, and turns those ideas into one clear daily action.

01 · Days 1–7

Dāna

Generosity

Replace scorekeeping with an abundance mindset.

Abundance Mindset
02 · Days 8–14

Piyavācā

Pleasant Speech

Make speech a place of safety and repair.

Art of De-escalation
03 · Days 15–21

Atthacariyā

Active Partnership

Turn good intentions into shared action.

Beneficial Conduct
04 · Days 22–30

Samānattatā

Radical Equity

Build equal dignity into daily decisions.

Equal Dignity

Paid Temple feature: your map highlights completed foundations, your current week, the next practice, and the wider book concepts supporting each stage.

Open the complete journey

A complete month together

Insight becomes a shared way of living.

Week 1

Give freely

Move from hidden scorekeeping toward generosity and clear requests.

Week 2

Speak face-to-face

Protect connection while listening, disagreeing, and repairing—especially when text would make things worse.

Weeks 3–4

Protect attention

Share initiative, create phone-free rituals, and build a partnership grounded in equal dignity.

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No recurring chargeEmail verified before paymentEducational—not therapy

Good to know

Why purchase this if we already own the book?

The book explains the Four Bases. The journey turns them into a day-by-day schedule, exact prompts, a complete practice library, and shared progress—so you spend less time deciding what to do and more time doing it together.

When do I create an account?

Before payment. We email a six-digit code to verify that the address belongs to you. The verified account still cannot enter paid Temple content until Stripe confirms the one-time purchase.

Do both partners need to purchase it?

No. One purchase opens the complete journey for two privately connected accounts.

Do we share one login?

No. You create the first private account, then send a private invitation after payment. Your partner creates their own password.

What if payment succeeds but I cannot enter?

Your account already exists before Stripe opens, so payment confirmation normally activates it automatically. If access does not appear, contact hello@fourbasesoflove.com. We will restore access or refund a payment we cannot fulfill.

What is the refund policy?

If paid access cannot be provided, contact us promptly for restoration or a refund. Once you open paid Temple content, the digital-program purchase is final except where applicable law requires otherwise. Full terms appear before payment.

Can my partner see my diagnostic results?

Only when you choose to share a result. New check-ins are private by default, and you can share or unshare each one.

What happens after Day 30?

You may revisit practices, complete missed days, or restart while The Four Bases of Love continues to operate and offer the program. “Lifetime access” means the operational life of the program; if the business or site permanently closes, online account access ends. See the Terms and Disclaimer for details.

What if we miss a day?

Continue when you can. The journey is structured for 30 practice days, not for perfection or an unforgiving calendar streak.

Is this couples therapy?

No. It is an educational relationship practice and does not replace counseling, therapy, medical care, or crisis support.