Guides for couples

Small, practical ways to return to each other.

Short guides drawn from The Four Bases of Love: conversation questions, games for a night at home, and everyday shifts you can try tonight.

Conversation guide · For two · 7 min read40 questions to ask your partner, sorted by the Four Bases of LoveForty thoughtful questions for couples, grouped into generosity, kind speech, partnership, and equality. Use one set per evening, with phones down.Date night · At home · 6 min read8 date night games at home that bring you closerSimple at-home date night games for two: a six-minute couples quiz, conversation games, and small rituals. Most need nothing but 10 to 20 minutes.Dāna · Generosity · 6 min readHow to stop keeping score in a relationship, without ignoring real imbalanceScorekeeping turns care into debt. Four steps from the Four Bases of Love: notice the ledger, choose gift or request, give freely, and review patterns weekly.Free quiz · Just you · 2 minutesWhat’s your love strength?Eight everyday moments reveal which of the Four Bases you lead with, and one practice for this week.Free couples game · 6 minutesHow well do you know your partner?Answer eight everyday questions on one phone, guess each other’s answers, and reveal together.